what is a toi et moi design?

toi et moi — french for "you and me" — is a style that pairs two stones side by side in one setting. historically associated with connection and duality, our version pairs two meaningful birthstones in your choice of solid 14k gold or platinum, handcrafted to order in our los angeles studio. available as rings and necklaces.

what does a toi et moi piece cost?

rings start from $1,250 and necklaces from $895. price varies by stone combination and metal choice. all pieces are made in solid 14k gold or platinum — final pricing is shown at checkout once you configure your design.

can i choose any two stones?

yes. each piece is named for a birth month but you can mix and match any combination of stones at checkout. popular pairings include your birthstone with a partner's, two children's stones, or a stone that simply holds meaning for you.

are the gemstones natural or lab-grown?

we offer both. availability varies by stone — some gemstones are available in natural only, others in both natural and lab-grown options. all natural stones are conflict-free. the product page for each design will show what's available for that specific combination.

can a toi et moi ring be used as an engagement ring?

yes — many of our customers choose a toi et moi ring as an engagement ring or proposal piece. each ring is made in solid 14k gold or platinum with your choice of two stones, including diamonds, sapphires, and other fine gemstones. we can also add engraving for a personal touch.

what metal options are available?

all toi et moi pieces are available in solid 14k yellow gold, solid 14k white gold, solid 14k rose gold, and platinum. these are solid metals — not gold-plated or gold-filled.

how long does it take to make my design?

each design is made to order in our los angeles studio. production takes approximately 2–3 weeks, followed by shipping. you'll receive tracking once your order ships.

do you offer resizing for rings?

yes — complimentary resizing is included within six weeks of receipt. after that, resizing is available for a small fee. we want your ring to fit perfectly.

yes — engraving is available for $45 and can be added at checkout. a popular way to personalize your piece with a date, initials, or a short phrase.

what is the toi et moi stack?

the stack pairs a toi et moi ring with a custom pavé wedding band, designed to nest together perfectly. it's offered as a set for customers who want a complete bridal look — both pieces made to order in matching metal.

what is your return policy?

we offer a two-week return window from the date of delivery, and a two-year warranty on manufacturing defects. if something isn't right, reach out to us at hello@juwels.co.

Toi et Moi Rings & Necklaces | 14k Gold

toi et moi rings →

choose your starting design, then select the two stones and metal that feel right for you.

January Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

Yellow Gold / December (London Blue Topaz)

February Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

March Toi et Moi Ring from $1,600.00

April Toi et Moi Ring from $3,300.00

May Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

June Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

July Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

August Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

September Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

October Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

November Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

December Toi et Moi Ring from $1,250.00

create your custom toi et moi ring

your two stones. your combination. start with any toi et moi ring design and make it yours. choose two birthstones, diamonds or gemstones, select your metal and add an engraving for an even more personal finish.

choose any two stones
14K yellow, white or rose gold & platinum
engraving available

design your toi et moi ring

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toi et moi necklaces →

choose your starting design, then select the two stones and metal that feel right for you.

January Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

Yellow Gold / February (Amethyst) / 4.5 ct

Yellow Gold / March (Aquamarine) / 4.5 ct

Yellow Gold / August (Green Peridot) / 4.5 ct

Yellow Gold / September (Blue Sapphire) / 4.5 ct

Yellow Gold / October (Pink Sapphire) / 4.5 ct

Yellow Gold / November (Citrin) / 4.5 ct

Yellow Gold / December (London Blue Topaz) / 4.5 ct

February Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

March Toi et Moi Necklace from $1,300.00

Yellow Gold / August (Green Peridot) / 2

Yellow Gold / September (Blue Sapphire) / 2

Yellow Gold / October (Pink Sapphire) / 2

Yellow Gold / December (London Blue Topaz) / 2

April Toi et Moi Necklace from $1,245.00

May Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

June Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

July Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

August Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

September Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

October Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

November Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

December Toi et Moi Necklace from $995.00

Morganite Toi et Moi Necklace from $1,200.00

Onyx Toi et Moi Necklace from $895.00

Yellow Gold / March (Aquamarin) / 4.5 ct

Close-up of a hand wearing a ring with a yellow background

the pavé band was designed to sit alongside your toi et moi ring — a continuous row of 110 diamonds in 14k gold that completes the stack without competing with it. handcrafted in los angeles, made to order, made for you.

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"i absolutely love my toi et moi ring — it's stunning. julia worked with me through two sizing changes without any hesitation. you hardly see this kind of personalized service anymore."

— dana

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"julia sent me pictures of various moonstones so i could choose exactly which stone matched my vision. the final product is beautiful — and her personal attention throughout made the whole experience exceptional."

— jenny

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"jewelry 10/10. customer service 10/10. julia made sure my ring didn't sit at the post office over a holiday weekend. it arrived exactly as shown on the website."

— diandra

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"last-minute custom ring with two stones — and they had it to me on time. top tier quality. my wife absolutely loves it. will definitely be a repeat customer."

— john

★★★★★ google reviews

"julia personally emailed me throughout the process to update me on shipping. i felt so taken care of. the ring is absolutely gorgeous — i really appreciate their craftsmanship."

— selina

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"i thought my note about needing it by my anniversary would be overlooked. they pushed my order through and shipped it overnight. their exceptional attention to detail has made me a customer for life."

— bob

faq

: toi et moi — french for "you and me" — is a style that pairs two stones side by side in one setting. historically associated with connection and duality, our version pairs two meaningful birthstones in your choice of solid 14k gold or platinum, handcrafted to order in our los angeles studio. available as rings and necklaces.
: rings start from $1,250 and necklaces from $895. price varies by stone combination and metal choice. all pieces are made in solid 14k gold or platinum — final pricing is shown at checkout once you configure your design.
: yes. each piece is named for a birth month but you can mix and match any combination of stones at checkout. popular pairings include your birthstone with a partner's, two children's stones, or a stone that simply holds meaning for you.
: we offer both. availability varies by stone — some gemstones are available in natural only, others in both natural and lab-grown options. all natural stones are conflict-free. the product page for each design will show what's available for that specific combination.
: yes — many of our customers choose a toi et moi ring as an engagement ring or proposal piece. each ring is made in solid 14k gold or platinum with your choice of two stones, including diamonds, sapphires, and other fine gemstones. we can also add engraving for a personal touch.
: all toi et moi pieces are available in solid 14k yellow gold, solid 14k white gold, solid 14k rose gold, and platinum. these are solid metals — not gold-plated or gold-filled.
: each design is made to order in our los angeles studio. production takes approximately 2–3 weeks, followed by shipping. you'll receive tracking once your order ships.
: yes — complimentary resizing is included within six weeks of receipt. after that, resizing is available for a small fee. we want your ring to fit perfectly.
: yes — engraving is available for $45 and can be added at checkout. a popular way to personalize your piece with a date, initials, or a short phrase.
: the stack pairs a toi et moi ring with a custom pavé wedding band, designed to nest together perfectly. it's offered as a set for customers who want a complete bridal look — both pieces made to order in matching metal.
: we offer a two-week return window from the date of delivery, and a two-year warranty on manufacturing defects. if something isn't right, reach out to us at hello@juwels.co.

handmade in los angeles, california

each design is cast, set, and finished by hand in our north hollywood studio

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responsibly sourced materials

insured worldwide shipping

free resizing, easy returns

dedicated, founder-led support

toi et moi rings & necklaces

toi et moi rings →

create your custom toi et moi ring

create your custom toi et moi ring

your two stones. your combination. start with any toi et moi ring design and make it yours. choose two birthstones, diamonds or gemstones, select your metal and add an engraving for an even more personal finish.choose any two stones14K yellow, white or rose gold & platinumengraving available

your two stones. your combination. start with any toi et moi ring design and make it yours. choose two birthstones, diamonds or gemstones, select your metal and add an engraving for an even more personal finish.choose any two stones14K yellow, white or rose gold & platinumengraving available

toi et moi necklaces →

the pavé band was designed to sit alongside your toi et moi ring — a continuous row of 110 diamonds in 14k gold that completes the stack without competing with it. handcrafted in los angeles, made to order, made for you.

the pavé band was designed to sit alongside your toi et moi ring — a continuous row of 110 diamonds in 14k gold that completes the stack without competing with it. handcrafted in los angeles, made to order, made for you.

faq

handmade in los angeles, california

your two stones. your combination. start with any toi et moi ring design and make it yours. choose two birthstones, diamonds or gemstones, select your metal and add an engraving for an even more personal finish.

choose any two stones
14K yellow, white or rose gold & platinum
engraving available

your two stones. your combination. start with any toi et moi ring design and make it yours. choose two birthstones, diamonds or gemstones, select your metal and add an engraving for an even more personal finish.

choose any two stones
14K yellow, white or rose gold & platinum
engraving available