what is a toi et moi ring?

a toi et moi ring features two stones set side by side in one setting. the name is french for "you and me" — a style historically associated with connection, duality, and shared meaning. our version pairs two birthstones in your choice of stone shape and solid gold metal, handcrafted to order in our los angeles studio.

how much does a toi et moi ring cost?

rings start from $1,250 in solid 14k gold. price varies by stone combination and metal choice — platinum is available at an additional cost. final pricing is shown at checkout once you've configured your design.

can i use this as an engagement ring?

yes — and many of our customers do. a toi et moi birthstone ring is a meaningful alternative to the traditional diamond solitaire, pairing your stone with your partner's as a symbol of your two lives. our co-founder julia malysch first wrote about this concept for german vogue, and it's been at the heart of the collection ever since.

can i get this ring with natural stones?

yes. most colored gemstones in the toi et moi collection are natural — garnet, amethyst, aquamarine, and others are available to select directly on the product page. lab-created stones (diamond, emerald, ruby, and sapphire) are also available. if you have a specific request, reach out at hello@juwels.co.

how do i choose my two stones?

you can combine any two birthstones — your own, a partner's, a child's, or simply two stones that feel meaningful to you. each stone carries its own energy and intention: garnet for protection, diamond for clarity and strength, sapphire for wisdom, emerald for renewal, and so on. select your combination from the dropdown above, and we'll handcraft the ring to your specifications.

what gold options are available?

each ring is available in solid 14k yellow gold, white gold, and rose gold or platinum. we use solid gold — not gold-filled or gold-plated — so the ring holds its quality and color over time. all pieces come with a diamond certificate where applicable.

is this ring made to order?

yes. every ring is handcrafted in our los angeles studio after you place your order. because each piece is made specifically for you — with your chosen stones, metal, and size — production takes 10-15 business days. if you need it by a specific date, reach out and we'll do our best to accommodate.

what if my ring doesn't fit?

we offer free ring sizing up to 6 weeks after you receive your ring. if your size changes or the fit isn't quite right, reach out within that window and we'll take care of it. we also have a ring size guide to help you find your size before ordering — and our team is always happy to help if you're unsure.

what is your warranty and return policy?

all juwels & co rings come with a two-year warranty covering manufacturing defects. if something isn't right with the craftsmanship of your piece, we'll make it right.for returns, we offer a two-week return window from the date you receive your ring. because our pieces are made to order and personalized, we ask that you reach out to us before sending anything back — we want to find the best solution for you, whether that's a resize, repair, exchange, or refund. free shipping applies to all us orders.

are your gemstones natural or lab-created?

we use a thoughtful mix of both — each chosen for its quality, beauty, and integrity. our natural stones are responsibly sourced and selected for their individual character. our lab-created stones are chemically and optically identical to their mined counterparts, with a smaller environmental footprint.natural stones:garnetamethystaquamarinemoonstonemorganitewhite topazperidotcitrinelondon blue topazonyxlab-created stones:diamondemeraldrubyblue sapphirepink sapphire

where do your gemstones come from?

our natural stones are sourced from established gem-producing regions around the world — garnets from africa and india, amethysts from brazil and uruguay, aquamarine from brazil and pakistan, moonstone from india and sri lanka, peridot from arizona and pakistan, citrine and blue topaz from brazil, and onyx from brazil and india. all stones are selected for quality and sourced through suppliers who uphold fair and transparent trade practices.

is engraving available?

yes — engraving is available for $45 and can be added at checkout. a meaningful way to personalize your piece with a date, initials, or a short phrase. engraving is placed on the back of the setting.

what is the meaning and healing energy of each birthstone?

each stone in our collection carries its own intention. we believe jewelry is most powerful when it resonates personally — and choosing a stone for its meaning adds another layer of connection to your piece.garnet — january: boosts energy and protects travelers. a stone of vitality and grounding.amethyst — february: brings calm, balance, and clarity. long associated with inner peace and intuition.aquamarine — march: inspires courage and inner peace. a stone of clarity and communication.diamond — april: symbolizes strength, love, and clarity. the most enduring of all stones.emerald — may: encourages growth, harmony, and renewal. connected to the heart and new beginnings.moonstone — june: enhances wisdom, balance, and intuition. a stone of feminine energy and reflection.ruby — july: sparks passion, vitality, and confidence. one of the most powerful stones for courage.peridot — august: protects, reduces stress, and attracts positivity. a stone of light and renewal.blue sapphire — september: supports wisdom, truth, and focus. historically worn for protection and mental clarity.pink sapphire — october: inspires creativity, love, and self-expression. a stone of joy and emotional openness.citrine — november: attracts joy, abundance, and success. known as the "merchant's stone" for its energy of prosperity.london blue topaz — december: brings peace, healing, and protection. a deeply calming stone with a cool, clear energy.

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Description

French for you and me, the Toi et Moi Birthstone Ring brings two stones together in one setting. Choose an emerald cut and a pear cut for two birthdays, two people, or two chapters of your story, then choose the gold that feels like you. Every combination is handcrafted to order in Los Angeles.

Details

Gold: 14k solid gold, or platinum
Setting: Toi et Moi
Gemstones: 2
Emerald cut: your choice, 9x7mm
Pear cut: your choice, 10x7mm
Band width: 2mm
Band depth: 1.5mm
Setting height: 0.6mm
Gemstone Origins*: Garnet, natural from India
Amethyst, natural from Brazil
Aquamarine, natural from Brazil
Sky Blue Topaz, natural from Brazil
Diamond, lab
White Topaz, natural from Brazil
Emerald, lab
Moonstone, natural from India
Ruby, lab
Peridot, natural from Burma
Blue Sapphire, lab
Pink Sapphire, lab
Citrine, natural from Brazil
London Blue Topaz, natural from Brazil
Morganite, natural from Brazil
Onyx, natural from Pakistan
*Gemstone colors may vary slightly in the final piece due to natural variation and screen display.

Certified

When you choose a diamond, it comes with a certificate from GIA or IGI, confirming its quality and authenticity.

Two Year Warranty

We stand behind the craftsmanship of every Juwels & Co piece. Orders shipped within the United States include a two-year warranty covering repair or replacement for any manufacturing defect. International tariffs, import duties and return-shipping requirements make it difficult to safely receive, repair and return pieces across borders, so the warranty is currently limited to US orders. We remain here to help our international customers with care and guidance.

Production Time

Each ring is made to order by hand in Los Angeles. Production takes 10–16 business days, plus 3–5 days for shipping. Some combinations need a stone sourced specifically for your design, which can add a little time. Have a date in mind? Write to us at hello@juwels.co and we'll do everything we can to meet it.

Free Resizing

If your ring doesn't sit quite right, we'll resize it free of charge within 6 weeks of delivery. Most rings can be adjusted up to one size in either direction, and every adjustment happens in our Los Angeles studio. Write to us at hello@juwels.co and we'll take it from there.

Free Shipping & Returns

We offer free worldwide shipping, and every order ships within 1 to 3 business days once your piece is made. Customers in the U.S. can return within 14 days, free of charge; the piece must be unworn and in the condition you received it. Import duties and taxes may apply to orders outside the U.S., U.K., Germany and Austria, and are the responsibility of the customer.

US	EU	Inside Circumference	Inside Diameter
MM	IN	MM
3	44	44.2	1.74	14.2
3.25	45	44.8	1.77	14.3
3.5	45.5	45.5	1.79	14.5
3.75	46	46.1	1.82	14.7
4	47	46.8	1.84	14.9
4.25	47.5	47.4	1.87	15.1
4.5	48	48	1.89	15.3
4.75	48.5	48.7	1.92	15.5
5	49	49.3	1.94	15.7
5.25	50	50	1.97	15.9
5.5	50.5	50.6	1.99	16.1
5.75	51	51.2	2.02	16.3
6	52	51.9	2.04	16.5
6.25	52.5	52.5	2.07	16.7
6.5	53	53.1	2.09	16.9
6.75	54	53.1	2.12	17.1
7	54.5	54.4	2.14	17.3
7.25	55	55.1	2.17	17.5
7.5	56	55.7	2.19	17.7
7.75	56.5	56.3	2.22	17.9
8	57	57	2.24	18.1
8.25	58	57.7	2.27	18.3
8.5	58.5	58.3	2.29	18.5
8.75	59	58.9	2.32	18.8
9	60	59.5	2.34	19
9.25	60.5	60.2	2.37	19.2
9.5	61	60.8	2.39	19.4
9.75	61.5	61.4	2.42	19.6
10	62	62.1	2.44	19.8
10.25	63	62.7	2.47	20
10.5	63.5	63.4	2.49	20.2
10.75	64	64	2.52	20.4

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"my toi et moi ring from juwels is stunning. what blew me away even more was the service — julia worked with me until the fit was perfect, and then again when i changed my mind on the finger. you don't find that kind of care anymore."

— dana

"i ordered our birthstones in a toi et moi setting — his and mine, paired together. i absolutely love it. a beautiful piece, delivered quickly. already thinking about my next order."

— b.

"i wear my toi et moi ring every single day. the compliments haven't stopped — and i always send people straight to the website. the personal service is something else."

— laurie

"last-minute custom ring with two stones — and they had it to me on time. top tier quality. my wife absolutely loves it. will definitely be a repeat customer."

— john

"so beautiful, delicate, and full of meaning. i honestly couldn't have imagined it would be so beautiful. you made our homecoming a bit more special."

— davide

"i didn't think they could get it to me in time, but julia said it could be done. it was ready three days later — still plenty of time for my mom's birthday."

— sharon

"jewelry 10/10. customer service 10/10. julia made sure my ring didn't sit at the post office over a holiday weekend. exactly what was shown on the website."

— diandra

"julia personally emailed me throughout the process to update me on the shipping status. i felt so taken care of. the ring is absolutely gorgeous — i really appreciate their craftsmanship."

— selina

"i thought my note about needing it by my anniversary would be overlooked. they pushed my order through and shipped it overnight. their exceptional attention to detail has made me a customer for life."

— bob

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