in december 2024, hailey bieber revealed a toi et moi ring honoring her son jack blues bieber — pairing his peridot birthstone with her own citrine. here's the meaning behind her ring, what it says about the toi et moi style, and how to create your own.
some pieces go beyond jewelry — they tell a story.
hailey bieber's toi et moi ring, revealed on instagram in december 2024, is one of those pieces. a tribute to her newborn son jack blues bieber, the ring pairs two birthstones: a peridot for jack (august) and a citrine for hailey (november). it's a design rooted in the toi et moi tradition — french for "you and me" — reinterpreted here as a celebration of motherhood rather than romantic partnership.
the ring sparked immediate interest in birthstone toi et moi designs. and it's a style that juwels & co has championed since well before it entered the mainstream conversation.
hailey bieber's ring — the details
hailey shared the ring on instagram in december 2024, shortly after the birth of her son jack blues bieber. the design is a toi et moi — two stones set side by side on a single band — featuring:
- Peridot — for Jack (August) a vivid lime green stone associated with warmth, light, and new beginnings. august's birthstone. peridot has long been associated with protection and positive energy — an intentional choice for a newborn.
- Citrine — for Hailey (November) a warm golden-yellow stone associated with joy, clarity, and optimism. november's birthstone. citrine's sun-like warmth pairs naturally with peridot's green — visually striking and symbolically intentional.
peridot and citrine — what they mean
birthstones carry centuries of meaning. hailey's pairing is anything but arbitrary.
- Peridot (August) one of the few gemstones that forms in only one color — an intense lime to olive green. historically associated with protection, healing, and new beginnings. in ancient egypt it was called "the gem of the sun." for a newborn, it's a quietly perfect choice.
- Citrine (November) a warm, golden variety of quartz associated with clarity, positivity, and creativity. often called "the merchant's stone" for its association with abundance. its golden warmth creates a beautiful visual contrast with peridot's green — complementary without competing.
the peridot-citrine combination is unexpected and striking — a color story that works precisely because neither stone tries to dominate the other. that balance is the essence of a well-chosen toi et moi pairing.
other celebrity toi et moi rings
hailey bieber isn't the first public figure to bring the toi et moi back into the spotlight. the two-stone silhouette has been chosen by some of the most closely-watched names in jewelry.
- Emily Ratajkowski chose a pear-shaped diamond toi et moi ring for her engagement — a direct echo of the original napoleon and joséphine design. after her divorce, she had the ring split into two separate rings, giving it new personal meaning.
- Ariana Grande her engagement ring featured a pearl and a diamond side by side — an unconventional pairing that introduced the toi et moi design to an entirely new generation and sparked a wave of pearl-and-diamond requests.
- Megan Fox her two-stone ring from machine gun kelly featured an emerald and a diamond — described as "thorned" to represent that love is not without difficulty. a deeply personal interpretation of the design.
- Hailey Bieber her december 2024 ring represents a new chapter for the toi et moi — moving beyond the engagement ring context entirely and into the language of motherhood and family connection. peridot for jack. citrine for hailey. two people, one ring.
why birthstone rings matter
birthstone jewelry holds a unique place in fine jewelry because it's one of the few categories where the meaning is built in from the start. the stone isn't just beautiful — it represents a specific person, a specific month, a specific life.
for a toi et moi ring, the birthstone choice turns the design into something that can't be replicated. there is no such thing as a generic birthstone toi et moi — every combination is singular. a peridot and citrine ring means hailey and jack. an emerald and ruby ring means something entirely different to the person who chose those stones.
hailey bieber's ring is a mother-child design. but the same logic applies to partners choosing their birthstones, to someone honoring two people they've lost, to a person marking two chapters of their own life. the toi et moi birthstone ring is one of the most versatile formats in fine jewelry precisely because it works for any meaningful pairing.
the toi et moi birthstone ring at juwels & co
juwels & co launched the toi et moi birthstone ring over two and a half years ago — well before hailey bieber's ring brought it back into the mainstream spotlight.
the idea came from co-founder julia malysch, who wrote about using a partner's birthstone in place of a traditional diamond for german vogue over a decade ago. that article explored what it means to choose something personal over something conventional. the ring that followed was the natural conclusion.
today the toi et moi birthstone collection covers all 12 birth months — every combination available as a ready-to-wear piece, or fully customizable with your own stone choice, cut, and metal. each ring is handcrafted in solid 14k gold in our los angeles studio, made to order for the person wearing it.
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your story deserves its own ring.
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