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a toi et moi ring features two stones set side by side in one setting. the name is french for "you and me" — a style historically associated with connection, duality, and shared meaning. our version pairs two birthstones in your choice of stone shape and solid gold metal, handcrafted to order in our los angeles studio.

yes — and many of our customers do. a toi et moi birthstone ring is a meaningful alternative to the traditional diamond solitaire, pairing your stone with your partner's as a symbol of your two lives. our co-founder julia malysch first wrote about this concept for german vogue, and it's been at the heart of the collection ever since.

yes. all toi et moi rings are available with natural, colored gemstones and diamonds upon request. reach out to us at hello@juwels.co and we'll guide you through your options.

you can combine any two birthstones — your own, a partner's, a child's, or simply two stones that feel meaningful to you. each stone carries its own energy and intention: garnet for protection, diamond for clarity and strength, sapphire for wisdom, emerald for renewal, and so on. select your combination from the dropdown above, and we'll handcraft the ring to your specifications.

each ring is available in solid 14k yellow gold, white gold, and rose gold or platinum. we use solid gold — not gold-filled or gold-plated — so the ring holds its quality and color over time. all pieces come with a diamond certificate where applicable.

yes. every ring is handcrafted in our los angeles studio after you place your order. because each piece is made specifically for you — with your chosen stones, metal, and size — production takes 10-15 business days. if you need it by a specific date, reach out and we'll do our best to accommodate.

we offer free ring sizing up to 6 weeks after you receive your ring. if your size changes or the fit isn't quite right, reach out within that window and we'll take care of it. we also have a ring size guide to help you find your size before ordering — and our team is always happy to help if you're unsure.

all juwels & co rings come with a two-year warranty covering manufacturing defects. if something isn't right with the craftsmanship of your piece, we'll make it right.

for returns, we offer a two-week return window from the date you receive your ring. because our pieces are made to order and personalized, we ask that you reach out to us before sending anything back — we want to find the best solution for you, whether that's a resize, repair, exchange, or refund. free shipping applies to all us orders.

we use a thoughtful mix of both — each chosen for its quality, beauty, and integrity. our natural stones are responsibly sourced and selected for their individual character. our lab-created stones are chemically and optically identical to their mined counterparts, with a smaller environmental footprint.

natural stones:

• garnet
• amethyst
• aquamarine
• moonstone
• morganite
• white topaz
• peridot
• citrine
• london blue topaz
• onyx

lab-created stones:

• diamond
• emerald
• ruby
• blue sapphire
• pink sapphire

our natural stones are sourced from established gem-producing regions around the world — garnets from africa and india, amethysts from brazil and uruguay, aquamarine from brazil and pakistan, moonstone from india and sri lanka, peridot from arizona and pakistan, citrine and blue topaz from brazil, and onyx from brazil and india. all stones are selected for quality and sourced through suppliers who uphold fair and transparent trade practices.

each stone in our collection carries its own intention. we believe jewelry is most powerful when it resonates personally — and choosing a stone for its meaning adds another layer of connection to your piece.

• garnet — january: boosts energy and protects travelers. a stone of vitality and grounding.
• amethyst — february: brings calm, balance, and clarity. long associated with inner peace and intuition.
• aquamarine — march: inspires courage and inner peace. a stone of clarity and communication.
• diamond — april: symbolizes strength, love, and clarity. the most enduring of all stones.
• emerald — may: encourages growth, harmony, and renewal. connected to the heart and new beginnings.
• moonstone — june: enhances wisdom, balance, and intuition. a stone of feminine energy and reflection.
• ruby — july: sparks passion, vitality, and confidence. one of the most powerful stones for courage.
• peridot — august: protects, reduces stress, and attracts positivity. a stone of light and renewal.
• blue sapphire — september: supports wisdom, truth, and focus. historically worn for protection and mental clarity.
• pink sapphire — october: inspires creativity, love, and self-expression. a stone of joy and emotional openness.
• citrine — november: attracts joy, abundance, and success. known as the "merchant's stone" for its energy of prosperity.
• london blue topaz — december: brings peace, healing, and protection. a deeply calming stone with a cool, clear energy.